☰
A friend in crisis and life
BDSM has an emotional depth that may be rarely found in vanilla relationships. Just think of the subspace and the extremely deep relationship of trust between Master and his Sub. As a Sub, your Dom fulfills a deep inner longing that not all people share. As a masochist, you are able to live a very primal, almost animalistic part of yourself. The list of emotional strengths is endless. So in BDSM, it is obvious, that other approaches are requested to deal with feelings and situations.
All preliminary discussions are free of charge. I have to listen to your story to be able to tell you whether I can help you or not.
I’m here. I’m a friend who is there for you in normal times of times of crisis. Has your Master separated from you? – It can’t get much worse. You gave him the ownership of you and now he doesn’t want you anymore. Feelings of worthlessness, despair and hopelessness rise. The depth of BDSM relationships is wonderful, but in a separation it is devastating. I’m here and will accompany you on your path through sadness back to normality. As a former therapist, I know many ways you can find your own paths. No matter what it is called.
As a therapist with experience since 2008 and as an old-school BDSM Master, I help. I care about your problems and worries. BDSM is such a huge and complex topic. In addition to technical knowledge, I empathize with relationships and am happy to help through conversations. You don’t have to come to me to do this. We can do the same thing by the phone. Short conversations with simple questions don’t cost anything as long as you don’t take more advantage than would be honorfull. But I’m always happy when you still make an appointment. Without prior written notice, I rarely pick up the phone.
You just want to relax and talk about your things. The SubWelt house offers you a safe environment to be yourself without having to do anything. In comfortable settings you can have long and deep conversations with me. I cook and take care of everything. You are you and take your time out. Especially in a different environment like the sun of Gran Canaria, it is more than possible to detach yourself from everyday life and from your problems. Here everything is different and yet familiar. The sun will warm you, the peace will let you sleep and the conversations will accompany you.
Feelings have their own logic and connections to each other. In rituals, you walk along these connecting paths and develop your situation to new levels. I perform rituals with you in the dunes of Maspalomas and the beaches in the south, accompany you on trance journeys and show you rituals for relationships and yourself. The therapeutic framework is crucial: I don’t tell you which rituals you should do. I create the opportunities for you to choose them yourself. I stand by your side.
The mentoring is clearly dedicated to female subs and dominatrixes. Two worlds that couldn’t be more different, but they are deeply connected by the depth of human emotions. With your experiences in BDSM, you have an access to yourself that is rare. We transform this depth into inner strength. Pride as a woman and primal human power are anchored. You find your pathways to allow these incredible forces to come to light. Your life will change instantly.