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Feelings and techniques: these are the two guarantees of becoming a dominatrix. The introductory course teaches you simple and effective methods of dominating a man or a woman. You will be emotionally coached to appear dominant: as the strong and self-confident woman that exists inside of you. The feeling of dominance will be explained to you and your self-esteem will be built up. You will test the effect directly on your instructor.
Technically, you will learn how to use ropes to tie up your sub. What do you have to consider, how can you achieve long-term bondage without cutting off the blood flow to the extremities? You will practice simple Shibari bondage directly in the course.
What do you do with a sub? You will learn how to spank directly on the instructor’s bottom. How do you not damage the underlying skin, where can you hit? To top it all off, you will learn how to use the whip and draw stripes on a bottom.
There is the assessment from the outside that someone has a dominant nature. From the inside, however, it is completely different. In BDSM plays, closeness is important, both physically and emotionally. Your sub wants to be led by you, wants to give you the possession of himself and serve. You can accept this gift lovingly and then do whatever you want with him. So we are talking about a mixed feeling. It is a mixture of love / passion and power. Love can devote itself devotedly to the sub and power leads and allows possibilities. You will be able to try the effect of your feeling of dominance on your sub in the introductory course.
The aim of bondage is not to get someone tied up. The aim is physical proximity and taking over power. Your sub becomes more and more defenseless and is at your mercy. You take over power, enjoy sliding the ropes around his skin, tying and knotting him into a small work of art. Mastering the knots is important. You learn standard knots and try them directly. Can you just tie hands and feet? – Not at all. Bondage allows you to try many of your own ideas. You also learn how to tie without cutting off the blood flows. And you learn live how to tie up a cock.
Impact play is literally about everything that hits. During the course you get a taste of spanking, caning and whipping somebody’s bottom. How to avoid damaging the lower connective skin when you spank your sub, how to deal with caning and how and where to whip properly. You can bring your own whips and equipment or you use those from the SubWelt. Every single piece of equipment is explained to you and the differences of the instruments are shown detailled.
In addition to the relevant ones, there are other games that can be part of the taster course: tickling with feathers and hands, the correct use of clamps and how to drive a man crazy with edging.
Enjoy your hours or days in my accompany or as my house guest. The longer you book, the more discount is available.
See my calendar: where there is an entry on a day, no further bookings are possible. It happens, somebody cancels an event: I can inform you via WhatsApp as soon as there are available dates.
The most beautiful place for your first BDSM impression as Mistress is of course Gran Canaria. If you are here on holiday, the introductory course to become a dominatrix is ideal for a whole afternoon into the evening. It is fun to learn how to tie up outside on the terrace and to make your sub feel comfortable in all parts of the house. You can also take part with a female friend.
The whole course can also be done online via video call. In your private time, you have plenty of your me-time and privacy. The online course includes organizing ropes and whips beforehand. I am happy to advise you in advance about what is worthwhile. Simple equipment is not expensive.