Mistress School – Courses to become a Dominatrix

The BDSM school for dominatrixes in private and professional practice shows BDSM techniques on an emotional and technical level in one-on-one accompaniment. It’s not just about how to tie up safely and whip without causing serious damage, the emotional impact and demeanor are also important. The individual parts of the training are freely selectable. If you want to gain more self-confidence through the feeling of dominance, you can, for example, only book the emotional part. The school is a day school. Ideally, you live in the SubWelt house. The entire school can also be attended online. You come alone or with a female friend. It is also possible to come with your female sub.

The local dominatrix school is located in the south of Gran Canaria. In addition to several rooms, it offers space for extensive sunbathing and has a kitchen in which delicacies can be conjured up. You will not lack for anything: you can concentrate completely on the school. Bondage also takes place outside on the large terrace. There are beams on which bondage can be practiced very well. Impact plays are set up inside. There are two bedrooms that invite you to play. You can learn privately or you can train for a professional job as a dominatrix.

Parts of the Dominatrix Training

The training to become a dominatrix is ​​individual and can be tailored completely to you. You learn and practice the parts that you want. It is always possible to make requests for topics that are not listed here. BDSM is a wide open field. Speak about what you can’t find here. The school probably has the options you want.

• Dominance Feeling
• Techniques and Safety
• Personal Hygiene and Emotional Stability
• Private or Professional Dominatrix?
• BDSM Plays – what to do with a slave?

Charisma does not come from appearance and clothing alone. Your sub or slave handles the ownership of himself to you. He gives himself to you, especially his cock. You accept this gift by allowing the feeling of ownership to arise. It is your cock, your ass. You can do whatever you want with it. There is hard BDSM and light BDSM. In both cases, your feeling of ownership is important. Your devotion is linked to this feeling: you begin to play passionately with your gifts. You want to play more with them, to torture them a little and enjoy the reactions. Practice this mixed feeling and receive feedback on the effects during training.

Bondage

You learn the art of bondage, how to use ropes and the difference between ropes and cuffs. How to always be on the safe side with simple standard knots and how to even do complicated bondage without cutting off blood flows to the extremities. There is a lot to learn about ​​bondage: but the basic techniques always remain the same.

Worship: Licking and Facesitting

What does it do to a slave when he has to lick your feet? Why does he like doing it and how can you increase his pleasure? And yours! How do you give dominant instructions so that you can really enjoy it? – He should satisfy you with his tongue between your legs. As a dominatrix, you have incredible options to help your slave finally learn to lick you properly – even when you are sitting on his face and whipping his cock.

Edging and Chastity

Your toy belongs to you. With simple tips you will learn how to keep his cock aroused for hours until it drips all over. An orgasm is completely controlled in edging and only allowed when your sub is almost going crazy. Milking while tied to a post can happen in passing. After that he must be available again. You practice playing with the cock during games at school.

CBT – Cock and Ball Torture

Of course, milking is nice when his cock and balls have to suffer. Slapping a cock lightly or hard needs some practice. You also learn to tie up a cock so that it is pulled to the floor by the rope. You whip it along its entire length. You learn striking techniques that increase the pleasure without causing real pain. A game ends when there is real pain.

Spanking, Caning and Whipping

The school shows you spanking in depth: preparing the lower connective skin layers and building up to a proper spanking. You practice on your sub’s bare bottom and check for redness. There are various techniques for working on a bottom with the cane. The same applies to the whip. You receive instructions how to whip for a long time and how to lead your slave further and further.

No matter how beautiful a woman is, her abilities and her own desire are more important for a manthan her appearance. There are many dominatrixes that you would not describe as particularly pretty. The flair and attraction entirely come from somewhere else: what will she do with her submissive?

However, there are important things: you serve some fetishes, such as the foot fetish. Your feet can be well-groomed at all times. Pedicure is important. Of course you can say: my slaves have to lick them and clean them. But that is not enough. Many subs and slaves are aesthetic people. Cleanliness is the top priority. The school talks about vaginal flora, body hair, anal care and clothing. You don’t need a latex and leather outfit. You need an effect.

Your personal care also includes taking care of your emotions. Emotionally you shall feel good and stable. Of course, men are at your feet. But are you missing something? – What does all this do to you?

In principle, it doesn’t matter whether you want to earn money as a dominatrix or use it for your partner in private life. The skills you learn are far beyond the technical. Especially in a professional environment, you usually have very successful customers. They are not stupid just because they want to submit to a woman. In some cases, this is exactly what guarantees their success. Many subs are intelligent people, often they work in management positions. You are a well-paid service. It is considered prostitution, even though you don’t actually have sex with your customers. In private, you can fulfill your partner’s secret desires and take your relationship to heights that would probably not be possible without BDSM.

What do subs want? – And is that important? These are controversial questions in the entire BDSM scene. The Dominatrix School says: you learn these skills in order to provide a service. And this service should be excellent. That also means it should suit you and your sub. In private, many couples do not have a slave contract or anything like that. You may have your playtime, then everything goes back to normal, on an equal footing. In the professional area, you remain a dominatrix, but you are not together. In both of these cases, you can certainly consider that the wishes of the subs are important. That is how the school operates too. We are all normal people with a special kink.

Sessions and Choreographies

BDSM is not a simple topic. It is a game you play together and that you can look forward to immensely. In the time between the games, as a dominatrix, you may consider new things that you would like to do with your property. These can be small things or entire choreographies. Once you know your sub’s fantasies, you have the perfect opportunity to vary them and develop them further. You will find a category of this in the SubWelt Blog.
At the femdom school, you learn how to create a choreography for a BDSM session, with the necessary material to set goals. You also practice these live.

Special Sub Requests

Some subs have whole scenarios of highly erotic fantasies circulating in their heads. Sometimes a sub expresses such a fantasy. As a dominatrix, responding to it does not undermine your authority. On the contrary: you now know what your possession would particularly like and can delay it and play with it. Of course, there is much more extreme than pet play, such as keeping the sub like a dog. How to deal with it always depends on the communication. There are ideas from the slaughterhouse, morbid stories and everything you can’t even imagine. Nevertheless: communication is always the key!

Rebelliousness and Bratty Behavior

You can’t necessarily expect a sub to follow you. Bratties, for example, want to be put in their place. If a sub is too rebellious, punishment will probably be due. There are many things in everyday life that add extra spice to the game. Did you slurp the soup at the table? – One look is enough and he knows what will happen to him that evening… We’re talking in school about the possibilities of integrating BDSM play into everyday life.