Introductory Trial Session Course to Become a Mistress

Feelings and techniques are the two guarantees of becoming a dominatrix.

Emotional Coaching:

• The introductory course teaches simple and effective methods for dominating a man or a woman.
• You will be emotionally coached to appear dominant, enhancing your presence as the strong and self-confident woman that exists within you.
• The feeling of dominance will be explained to you, and your self-esteem will be built up. You will test these effects directly on your instructor.

Techniques:

• Rope Work: You will learn how to use ropes to securely tie up your submissive (sub). It is essential to consider what points to secure for long-term bondage without cutting off blood flow to the extremities.
• Shibari Bondage: Practice simple Shibari techniques directly in the course, ensuring safe and effective binding.

Physical Interaction:

• Spanking: You will learn how to administer a spanking on your instructor’s bottom. Proper technique ensures that you do not damage the underlying skin, knowing where to hit effectively.
• Whip Use: Master the art of using a whip to create stripes on a bottom safely and effectively.

The Feeling of Dominance

There is often an external perception that someone has a dominant nature, but from within, it can be entirely different. In BDSM plays, closeness is crucial—both physically and emotionally. Your submissive (sub) desires to be led by you, wishes to give you possession of himself, and to serve.
You can accept this gift lovingly and then act accordingly based on your feelings. This dynamic involves a mix of emotions: love/passion intertwined with power dynamics. Love can deeply devote itself to the sub, while power leads and opens up possibilities.
In the introductory course, you will have the opportunity to explore and experience the feeling of dominance on your sub, allowing you to understand both aspects of this mixed emotion.

Bondage and Security for Beginners

The primary aim of bondage is not merely to tie someone up but to create physical proximity and take over power dynamics, making your sub increasingly defenseless and placing him entirely under your control. As a dominant, you will enjoy the process of binding your submissive (sub), seeing him become more and more vulnerable. This involves taking charge, relishing in the sensation of sliding ropes around his skin, tying and knotting him into a form of art. Mastering the knots is crucial, as you learn standard techniques and practice them directly.

Bondage Techniques:

• You can tie hands and feet, but bondage goes beyond these basic constraints. It allows you to explore and try many of your own ideas.
• You will learn how to secure bindings without cutting off blood flow, ensuring safety and comfort for your sub.
• Additionally, you will learn how to properly bind a cock, understanding the necessary techniques.

These skills help create a dynamic where both physical and psychological control are exercised with care and precision.

Impact Play: Spanking, Caning, Whipping

Impact play encompasses everything that involves striking or hitting, including spanking, caning, and whipping. During the introductory course, you will get a comprehensive understanding of these techniques:

• Spanking:
  Learn how to avoid damaging the lower connective skin when administering a spanking.
• Caning:
  Understand the proper methods for using a cane on your sub.
• Whipping:
  Master the correct techniques for wielding a whip, including where and how to apply it. You can bring your own whips and equipment or use those provided by SubWelt. Every piece of equipment will be thoroughly explained, with detailed differences highlighted between different instruments.

In addition to impact play, other games that may be included in the taster course include:

• Tickling: Learn how to use feathers and hands for effective tickling.
• Clamps: Understand the correct use of clamps and their effects on your sub.
• Edging: Discover how to drive a man crazy with edging techniques.
• Cock Slapping: Enjoy the fun of letting a cock fly around. This technique involves playful and light slaps to the testicles or scrotum, designed to be enjoyable and teasing rather than harmful.

Online Introduction Course or during Vacation on Gran Canaria

The most beautiful place for your first BDSM impression as a dominatrix is undoubtedly Gran Canaria. If you are here on holiday, the introductory course is ideal for an entire afternoon into the evening. It’s both fun and enlightening to learn how to tie up outside on the terrace and ensure your sub feels comfortable in all parts of SubWelt. You can also participate with a female friend.
Alternatively, the whole course can be done online via video call. During your private time, you have plenty of me-time and privacy. The online course includes organizing ropes and whips beforehand. I am happy to advise you in advance about what is worthwhile. Simple equipment is not expensive.

Use me and Learn the Art—Discover the Joy in Your Own Power!

Many women come to me because they want to fulfill their partner’s wishes—and leave with the knowledge of how to do so safely and with joy. However, the biggest surprise for many is how much they themselves enjoy this role—the control, the intensity, the power.
The introductory course “Becoming a Dominatrix” lasts from afternoon until evening and costs 300.- €. The price includes pre-clarifications via WhatsApp as well as answering all your questions. Perhaps exactly this afternoon will reveal who you can be when you dare to step into this role.
Dare—to be surprised by how much this experience can bring you joy!