Course BDSM in Relationships: Workshop for Couples

When women express BDSM desires, many men feel overwhelmed: “I’m supposed to tie her up? Or hit her? That’s just not me… What if I do it wrong?”Such concerns are important – because they show that you can take responsibility. In my workshops, I support men precisely in these situations: in preliminary discussions by phone or in person in a relaxed setting. You can ask all your questions – even the ones you wouldn’t ask anyone else. We’ll talk about your role, about technique, about safety – but above all, about how you can discover your own form of dominance. Because here, too, the following applies: you don’t have to be a professional. You just have to be you – open, mindful, and ready to learn together with your partner.In the workshop, I’ll work with you to develop choreographies that provide structure and security. What equipment do you provide, and how do you use it effectively so that she can experience her pleasure and you can enjoy it? You’ll discover how much joy playing with her can bring.

When a man tells his partner he’s submissive or wants to be dominated, many women initially react with uncertainty: “What exactly does he want from me? Do I have to hit him? Doesn’t that scare me? I’m not a dominatrix…”These reactions are understandable—and they’re perfectly normal. It takes time, clarity, and security to embrace new roles. In my workshop, you’ll learn how to play with him, and I offer you (or you both together) a space to:

This course provides you with concise techniques for experiencing safe play. It also explores feelings you may have only just begun to confront: true dominance and true submission. A sadistic feeling isn’t simply present: the course teaches restraint in striking to ensure you always remain within safe boundaries.

In consensual BDSM, dominance is not simply about exercising power. Many people mistakenly believe this and therefore only experience superficial play. Dominance is a blend of love, devotion, and power. You are given the gift of ownership over your partner’s body. You accept this gift responsibly and play with your beloved plaything. As a Dom or Domina, you can explore your desires with this body and, through your actions, witness how the gifted body’s pleasure intensifies and ultimately belongs to you.

First, the preliminary discussions via WhatsApp are important. At your appointment in SubWelt, you’ll enter a cozy world filled with BDSM equipment, where you can seamlessly transition from a glass of wine or beer to a friendly gathering around a table. We’ll talk, and I’ll demonstrate the equipment. In a short meditation, I’ll guide the Dom/Domina into the feeling of true dominance, while your partner waits, restrained, in another room. I’ll guide you through individual aspects of impact play and dominant role-play. The submissive is encouraged to wear earplugs, which you should bring yourself.

Each couple pays € 200.-. You can bring a friend; I will accompany a maximum of two couples. In addition to the preliminary discussions, the workshop lasts one afternoon.