BDSM WhatsApp Group for Female & Male Subs, Slaves & Masochists – Europe Only

This WhatsApp group is exclusively for individuals based in Europe who are genuinely interested in BDSM and seeking meaningful connections within the lifestyle. If you are not located in Europe, please do not request access as you will not be admitted under any circumstances. This restriction is firmly in place to ensure cultural alignment, practical meetup possibilities, and time zone compatibility among all members.

The group serves as a space for CIS-female or CIS-male submissives, slaves, and masochists as well as Dominants actively looking for such partners. Here, members engage in open yet respectful discussions about BDSM relationships, personal experiences, and the various challenges and joys that come with living this lifestyle. Whether you are new to BDSM or have years of experience, you will find a supportive community ready to share insights, offer advice, and help you navigate your journey.

To join this group, you must first introduce yourself properly. This is not optional. When you are entering this SubWelt group after your access request , your message must clearly state three things: who you are, where you are based, and what you are seeking. For example, a proper introduction would be: “I am a 32-year-old female submissive based in Zurich, Switzerland, and I am looking for a Dominant to explore power exchange dynamics.” Messages that do not follow this format will be banned, as will requests from anyone outside of Europe.

Professional Doms, Mistresses, Dominatrixes and professional Slaves are welcome. Do not spam the group too much. You’ll be banned.

You will also need to verify that you are an adult, which can be done by providing a simple form of identification. This information is used solely for age verification and will be permanently deleted immediately after checking. Your privacy is respected, and no personal data is stored beyond what is necessary for this one-time verification.

Once admitted, you are free to participate in discussions, ask questions, and share your own experiences. The group is moderated to maintain a safe and respectful environment for everyone. This means that any form of disrespect, harassment, or inappropriate behaviour will result in immediate removal. Additionally, contacting other group members privately without their explicit consent is strictly prohibited and will also lead to removal.

The group operates on a principle of mutual support and discretion. Members often discuss a wide range of topics, from the practical aspects of finding a compatible partner to the emotional intricacies of D/s relationships. Some conversations may revolve around the challenges of being a switch, someone who enjoys both submissive and dominant roles, while others might explore how to integrate BDSM into everyday life. There are also discussions about the more technical sides of BDSM, such as DIY equipment or safety tips, as well as personal stories of growth and self-discovery through the lifestyle.

It is also worth noting that this group is completely free to join and free to leave. You are under no obligation to stay, and you may exit at any time without explanation. The only requirement is that you adhere to the rules and maintain the respectful and supportive atmosphere that defines this community.

If you are based in Europe and serious about joining, send a WhatsApp join request to SubWelt. Once admitted, immediately start with your introduction. Make sure to include who you are, where you are, and what you are seeking. Requests that do not meet these criteria will be removed from the group. For those who are not in Europe, please respect this boundary and do not contact us, as your request will be automatically disregarded.

For those who prefer not to use their personal phone number in a BDSM-related group, there are options available. You can purchase a prepaid SIM card from most mobile providers, which allows you to use a separate number for this purpose. Alternatively, an eSIM, which is a digital SIM card, can be a convenient solution if your phone supports it. If you need guidance on setting this up, feel free to ask, and we will be happy to assist you.

If you find the notifications from the group to be too frequent or disruptive, you can easily mute them. To do this, open the group chat, tap on the group name at the top of the screen, scroll down to the notifications settings, and select “None” for the notification sound. This way, you can check the group at your own convenience without constant interruptions.

In summary, this WhatsApp group offers a welcoming and moderated space for female and male submissives, slaves, masochists, and Dominants in Europe to connect, share, and grow together. As long as you are respectful, genuine, and based in Europe, you will find a community here that is ready to support you on your BDSM journey. Remember, the key to be inside is a clear and honest introduction, so take the time to craft your message carefully before reaching out.

To request access, ask for access with the WhatsApp button to SubWelt. We look forward to welcoming those who are truly aligned with the purpose and values of this group.

Europe only

After asking for access, you write via WhatsApp to me, confirm your age and where you are from. You will not be allowed to join if you’re outside of Europe. Anyone who does not introduce into the group will be removed again and blocked forever automatically.

Questions about the European BDSMGroup

You may have some questions about this group, so we have addressed the most common ones below to provide clarity.

One question we often receive is who exactly can join this group. The answer is straightforward: only adults based in Europe who are female or male submissives, slaves, masochists, or Dominants seeking such partners are welcome. This geographic restriction is in place to ensure that all members share a similar cultural and legal framework, which makes discussions and potential meetups more practical and meaningful. If you are not in Europe, we kindly ask that you respect this boundary and do not request access, as your application will not be considered.

Another common question is how to properly introduce yourself when entering. As mentioned earlier, your introduction must include three key pieces of information: who you are, where you are located in Europe, and what you are seeking. This helps us understand your intentions and ensures that everyone in the group is genuine and serious about their participation. An example of a proper introduction would be, “I am a 28-year-old submissive woman from Paris, France, looking for a Dominant to explore consensual power exchange.” Without these details, we unfortunately cannot process your request.

Some people also ask whether the group is moderated. Yes, it is. We have moderators in place to ensure that the group remains a safe and respectful space for all members. This means that any form of disrespect, harassment, or inappropriate behaviour will not be tolerated and will result in immediate removal from the group. Additionally, private messages between members without prior consent are strictly prohibited and will also lead to removal.

You might also wonder if there is a fee to join the group. There is not. This group is entirely free to join and free to leave at any time. There are no hidden costs or obligations. The only requirement is that you adhere to the rules and contribute to the positive atmosphere of the community.

Finally, if you are concerned about privacy, rest assured that any information you provide for age verification will be deleted immediately after checking. We take your privacy seriously and do not store any personal data beyond what is necessary for the verification process.

Helpful WhatsApp Tips for BDSM Groups

• Mute chat
  You may not want to receive notifications on your smartphone when something happens in the group. You prefer to read when you feel like it. You can do this like this:
  Click on the group picture. If you scroll down a bit you will find the item: Notifications. There you can set the notification sound to “None”.
• Join with a different number
  You don’t want to use your normal cell phone number to appear in a BDSM group. That’s understandable. You can buy a prepaid SIM from many cell phone providers. A so-called E-SIM is better if you don’t have an additional slot for a second card. An E-SIM is like a normal SIM, except that it’s digital. I’m happy to help you with that.

Topics of the Group

Our topics are as diverse as the people. We don’t follow any principle about what fits in the group and what doesn’t. Sometimes we just find new recipes. Some topics are repeated. That doesn’t matter, there are always new aspects:

• Being successful in your job and in life with BDSM
• Do-it-yourself meetings: some like to make their own torture instruments. The exchange has already led to some really good ideas.
• Switches: you live out your masochistic, sub side and at the same time you have the need to live out your Dom side. The group does not judge. Every woman to her own taste. How is it possible to be a switch in a D/S relationship.
• Singles: how do you find a real Dom who can meet your needs
• Couple relationships and BDSM
• Breakup pain and ways out for subs – we are there for each other
• Why am I a sub? – Sometimes it makes sense to take a look at your inner values.